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For the last two years, my work has been shaped by a high-volume booking model. While working in Melbourne, back-to-back appointments were common and, in many ways, required to achieve what I needed to. Staying busy, filling the calendar, and pushing through long days was part of how I operated. I worked hard. I stayed booked. I milked consistently. But it wasn’t a model designed for longevity. High-volume work leaves very little room for more - like recovery, presence, or su

There’s a performance expected now. Even in commercial pleasure. We’re expected to say the right things. Find the clues. Read the cues. Build something that looks like intimacy. Smile. Engage. Respond. All the while, manufactured connection becomes choreography. Desire becomes work. Not everyone wants that. Some people are tired of being pretend seen. Tired of being evaluated. Of being asked to show up as a version of themselves. This isn’t that. There’s no script here. No ch

Goodbye Melbourne! I’ve been going back and forth about how to write this, because it feels like a big thing to explain — even though the decision itself felt very simple once it clicked. I’m moving my work to Geelong, permanently. I won’t be doing the back-and-forth CBD touring I originally thought I would, and honestly, this is going to be so much better — for me and for my clients. This isn’t a sudden decision or a reaction to anything going wrong. It’s something I’ve been

Up until now, my sessions have been all-inclusive. What happened in a booking was based on mutual respect, chemistry, connection, and the trust I’ve built with many of my regulars. That flexibility has worked well — but it hasn’t fully acknowledged the additional risk that comes with certain services. I’ve decided it’s time to address that. Certain services come with a higher risk to my health. If I get sick, I can’t work — and in this job, that means no income. From now on,